The Weight of the Word

Fellowship – Snacks or a Meal (10 minutes with snacks; longer, obviously, if there is a meal).

Gathering Time (5-10 minutes). In pairs or groups of three, have participants answer, “Have you ever had a time when someone gently helped you see a mistake you made? How did their approach make you feel, and what did you learn from that experience?

Group Dialogue (Approximately 30 minutes). Read 2 Samuel 11:26 - 12:13a.

• Who is the father of the son of Uriah’s wife (2 Samuel 11:26) ? [David.] Bathsheba (Uriah’s wife) was sexually assaulted; her husband was killed, and now she is giving birth to this man’s baby. We do not hear her voice in the Bible. How do you think she felt?

• After David heard the parable from Nathan, what was David’s reaction? [“David's anger was greatly kindled against the man” (12:5).]
  • What does David’s reaction tell us about his understanding of his actions and his willingness to repent? [David's immediate anger toward the rich man in the parable and his subsequent realization shows that he had a strong sense of justice and was deeply convicted once he understood the gravity of his actions.]

• David said, "I have sinned against the LORD" (12:3a). This shows a sincere recognition of his wrongdoing and a desire for reconciliation with God. What are your thoughts about his reaction?

• How can we apply Nathan's approach to confrontation in our own lives when addressing wrongdoings? What steps can we take to ensure we are both truthful and compassionate?

• “So, let the word speak to God’s people this week, as it does every week. Let the proclamation be one of transformation, repentance, and restitution. Let there be a challenge to all to not abuse their power, their position, their authority. And let us hold our leaders to a high standard in life and official capacity. Let us see all the people who might be impacted by our choices and our preferences. Let us hear the weight of the word that tears down and builds up in equal measure.” (Preaching Notes from August 4).
  • Based on today's discussion, what action will you take this week to address a personal or communal issue that requires confession? How will you ensure you follow through with this commitment?

Prayer (10 minutes). Share prayer requests and respond appropriately.

Sending Forth (2 minutes). Pray the following prayer, a similar prayer, or the Lord’s Prayer:

Dear God, we thank You for the story of David and Nathan, which reminds us of the power of confession and the importance of accountability. Help us approach our wrongdoings with humility and seek reconciliation with those we have hurt. Grant us the courage to be truthful and the wisdom to be compassionate in our confrontations. Amen.